It Pays For Single Christians
To Date Other Like-Minded People
By
Drew Harris
Searching for the perfect mate can be
one of lifes greatest challenges.
Afterall, forever is a long time. You
want to make the right decision.
Dating itself can be really trying. It
can be hard to find the right people. What if they dont share the same
values and beliefs that you do? How do you handle that and when?
Wouldnt it be easier to know ahead
of time that they are Christian, just like you?
Wouldnt it be easier to know their
respect for God and other people, values and beliefs, mirrors your own?

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I know my own dating experiences were
trying at best. My stomach used to churn before hand. Id be so excited
to meet new people, only to cringe as that feeling was replaced with absolute,
crushing hopelessness as the person demonstrated a trait I knew I just
wouldnt be able to tolerate.
If they said something snide about children
and my being a parent, I knew it was over. If they werent pet people,
it was going nowhere.
If they were vulgar, ignorant, not funny
or if God didnt have a place in their life like mine, what could we
possibly have in common?
A few incidents come to my mind. The
dental hygienist who chain-smoked. The girl who didnt shave her legs,
her armpits and didnt wear deodorant (it took a few dates to begin
to figure this one out).
I remember one Friday night where I thought
I had met someone with real potential. She was highly educated, respectful
and thoughtful. Several dates later, she showed up at my house with an open
bottle of wine, already drunk. And then she stormed off when I mentioned
concern that she had been drinking and driving.
So how do you find the right people?
How do you at least give a first date a chance, by taking the time to get
to know people coming from a similar place as you?
The workplace can be a popular source,
if there are lots of employees and some that believe in God as you do.
But what if you work too much and dont
have time to meet people? Or, what if meeting people is quite a scary experience,
and youd like to find a like minded group of people, that
you can get to know via email first before actually meeting?
The answer, more and more, is the Internet.
Never before has the worlds millions of singles, been able to find
sources of other singles who are just like they are.
The best part is these specific sources
of singles can be pre-determined ahead of time. For instance, youll
know youre talking to someone who is Christian, because you found their
ad on a Christian singles site.
Make sense? Much easier than trying to
make these discoveries of values and beliefs over coffee or dinner.
You can further refine your search by
specific age ranges, kids or not, divorced or not, white, black, location,
income level, career path, Yankees fan or not (very important!), etc.
I finally found my Soul Mate through
a personals ad on a website. We lived in different communities but on the
same island (20 miles apart). More importantly, our hearts, beliefs, values,
sense of humor and general outlooks were very similar. And we knew that before
ever meeting.
It was wonderful courtship. We married
the next year. And to this day, many years later, we laugh that the first
date never ended.
You too can have this experience, when
you find a source of like-minded people to start to get to know.
| RESOURCE BOX:
Drew Harris runs
Single-Christians.net,a huge source of like-minded people. Dont date
the wrong people ever again. One-stop-shop relationship portal just for
Christians. Hundreds of pages on dating, love and marriage. Start building
your successful relationship today.
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